Monthly Archives: December 2010


Three years ago, I made a list of resolutions summed up by the following: “2008 will not suck in the manner of 2007.” Two years ago, I made a similar list and ended it with, “2009 will not suck in … Continue reading

Posted in past, positive thinking, Uncategorized | 4 Comments

Put a cap on it

Since my most recent post bitching about my IUD (because there have been several), I’ve received much unsolicited advice and done a lot of thinking on the subject.  The advice is all coming from people who can relate to my … Continue reading

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I don’t know

The other day, my mom clipped out an article – actually, an advice column – for me, headlined, “The special recipe for finding a chance at happily ever after.”  She likes to give me these tips on how to make … Continue reading

Posted in divorce, future, love, marriage, past, therapy, Uncategorized | 4 Comments

Sibling rivalry

Another thing contributing to my sense of imbalance lately is my brother, and his relationship with his girlfriend. For the first time, like, ever, my brother Joey has a girlfriend whom he likes enough to actually show affection to in … Continue reading

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Something is not quite right here. As of this evening, there’s a strange Ukrainian girl living in my childhood bedroom.  She’s only there for a few months, and is going to pay a few hundred a month in rent, which … Continue reading

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My stupid birth control

This is going to be one of those posts that may contain too much personal information for some of my readers – and not in a sexy way either. I’ve mentioned before that I am not a great producer of … Continue reading

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Last Christmas, first Christmas

This is the third Christmas since my miscarriage.  And I never really felt the loss in relation to the holiday, didn’t spend that first Christmas thinking I should be pregnant, or the second thinking I should have a baby, and … Continue reading

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