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Monthly Archives: January 2011
Flexing my resilience muscle
I was sitting in the breakroom at work one day last week, when a headline in the paper caught my eye. “Mood improves when the going gets tough,” it read, and I thought, “What is this bullshit?”* Apparently, this so-called … Continue reading
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Century Club
I feel like my posts lately have all been about funerals and extramarital affairs. So while talking to a friend earlier, about how I was planning on writing about this article my mom clipped out for me, headlined, “Mood improves … Continue reading
Posted in divorce, friends, love, marriage, perspective, sex or lack thereof
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“Passion.”
Before I begin: apparently that law of attraction stuff really works. Last week, I wished to be less tied to technology. This morning, I dropped my seven-year-old Mac laptop on the kitchen floor, and um, it definitely doesn’t work anymore. … Continue reading
Posted in friends, love, perspective, words to live by
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Another weird dream
I really wish I had written last night’s dream down as soon as I woke up this morning, which is what you’re supposed to do if you actually give a fuck about what your dreams might mean. But I didn’t, … Continue reading
Posted in divorce, friends, past
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Baby-daddy
I mentioned once here that, although I know I want to have kids, and I know I want to be with Doug, I still admire the conviction of women who can say, “I want to have his baby” (and maybe … Continue reading
Posted in friends, love, past
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Necessary evil
As I so rarely do, I walked into therapy yesterday with a plan: I wanted to talk about that divorcing couple I know, and how their experience is forcing me to think about my own. “It’s almost like I feel … Continue reading
Posted in divorce, past, perspective, therapy
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Blackout
I went to bed early last night, because Doug had to wake up at 3:30 for work, and I’m always up for going to bed early. This, of course, resulted in me being wide awake at 7 a.m., an hour … Continue reading
Posted in perspective, present, therapy
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All I wanna do
I posted last week about how I wish Doug would figure out what he wants to do with his life so he can stop being underpaid and complacent. I want this for him so that he will feel happy, and … Continue reading
Posted in family, future, writing
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Sunday pout-fest
I am sitting here pouting and eating all the peanut M&Ms, because Doug just left to go to Target, and I’ve been given the next 40 minutes to “do my blog and get ready to leave.” (We’re going up to … Continue reading
Posted in family, friends, negative thinking, pregnant women, sex or lack thereof
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Rule #1: no PDA!*
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about passion, and affection, and their place outside the bedroom. It started with the decision that, sex or no, I owe it to Doug to cultivate these things in myself, and show them to … Continue reading
Posted in friends, love, sex or lack thereof
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